June 10

The weather was so great, we got to enjoy our patio twice today!

June 9

Day date with the hubby. Fantastic!

June 8

I saw a hummingbird in my back yard this morning. So happy to see the little guy.

June 7

So many people in my life are hurting today.  Someone cried on my shoulder today.  I know it is not easy, but I tried to share with my friend that the future, while so very uncertain right now, could be really positive, and just because it is change does not mean that it will be negative change. 

June 6

An old friend took the time to meet with my new employee today to talk about things.  He didn't have to join our conversation, but he did and it really helped my  new employee.

June 5

I attended an event tonight - a mixer.  It was the first for this group, and it had such great energy.  People really enjoyed this new event, and I was pleased to have a small part of it.

June 4

I was frustrated at the end of my work day today.  While I was driving home, feeling frustrated, I noticed a man drive past me.  He was in a convertible, had the top down, and was snapping his fingers to the music and obviously enjoying his drive.  This man changed my perspective.  My frustrations were not really that important, and I realized I should be focusing on enjoying the little things in life, like a nice drive on a warm, sunny day.

June 3

I was on a conference call for my new business tonight, and the speaker talked about how we should all focus on trying to make someone's day every day.  I just love this, and can't wait to try it.

June 2

I got to spend time with friends on my patio tonight.  There is not much better in my mind.

June 1

I was inspired by a woman today.  She is 70 years young and runs marathons, on top of being just an amazing person.  It was a great reminder that you can overcome anything that life throws in your way, and you do not have to be bound by a crappy childhood.

May 31

Sometimes, the best days are the ones where you can sit back say, "I made progress".

May 30

I got to offer someone a job today.  It is an amazing feeling to have someone tell you they were excited for an opportunity you are helping to give them.

May 29

I swung on a swing today. If you haven't done it lately, I recommend it. I felt like a kid again.

May 28

Not one, but two naps today for me!

May 27

Watching a baby crawl and try to stand up. It wasn't that long ago that my son was doing the same thing, but I had forgotten how adorable it is.

May 26

I had a wonderful date night with my husband tonight.

May 25

My kid behaved at a party tonight!

May 24

Sometimes, all it takes is a simple thank you. I put together a small event today, and it was so nice that every single person who attended told me thank you. I really didn't do much, but the guests got to eat and drink for free and I could tell they really appreciated it.

May 23

I have so many friends that are hurting today.  I received this card from a friend several years ago, and I wanted to share it with those who are struggling tonight.

Life is a journey that sometimes leads us through rough places...
But the walk is so much easier when we travel beside one another.
That way we can reach out and find help when we need someone to lean on.
It doesn't matter whose turn it might be or how much time it will take until the path becomes smooth again.
All that does matter is that we're there for each other and that we'll keep walking side by side
wherever the road may lead us...
And I want you to know I'm at your side right now. - M. E. Miro

May 22

I made a decision today.  It wasn't random, really, but it was taking the first step to changing some things in my life.  I want to be able to do things differently in the future, and I think I now can.  So wish me luck!

May 21

I got stuck in traffic today, and it was nice to take a couple extra minutes to just enjoy reflecting.

May 20

The check out girl let my son carry his toy out with him today. He was sil excited!

May 19

Sometimes as a mother you need reassurance that you are doing the right things. I got this today. It was nice.

May 18

I got a flat tire today. The closest store was Wal-Mart. I am not a fan of the store but desperate times called for desperate measures. They were great! I was the only one there, they got me in and out in 20 minutes, they showed me what caused the leak (a razor blade) and did not try to up sell me. They made a not so great experience tolerable.

May 17

I had not one, but two students hold doors for me today. 

May 16

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it.

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act - send someone a random gift (I was the recipient of flowers recently from a friend, just because I was having a rough week!)

May 15

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it.

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act - be the designated driver.

May 14

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it.

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act - bring your coworkers a special treat.

May 13

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it.

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act - transport someone who can't drive.

May 12

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it.

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act - pay the toll for the person behind you.

May 11

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it.

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act - leave a generous tip.

May 10

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it.

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act - pick up trash.

May 9

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it.

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act - give directions to someone.

May 8

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it.

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act - Help someone with get their luggage in the overhead bin on the plane. (this really happened to me on this day too!)

May 7

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it.

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act - write a letter to someone who has made a difference in your life.

May 6

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it.

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act - return a shopping cart that isn't yours.

May 5

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it.

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act - read to a child

May 4

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it.

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act - Mentor an at-risk child

May 3

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it.

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act - let someone go in line before you.

May 2

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it.

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act - give carepacks to the homeless

May 1

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it.

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act - donate used books to a library

April 30

I've been taking a break from the blog (life got in the way), but I'm back at it. 

To make up for the days I've missed, I'm including a random act that could be performed for the days I've missed.

Today's random act -

Offer a couple of hours of free babysitting to parents.

April 29

We spent a great day with old friends who were in town. It was so great to spend time with them. Lots of laughs.

April 28

We met some new people today who kept telling us how cute our son is.

April 27

I snuck a few minutes of shopping into my day today. Not long, maybe 15 minutes, but it was a nice break in the day.

April 26

I got flowers today randomly from a friend because I was having a rough work week. It was the sweetest thought and made my day!

April 25

Today was a good day because I heard Today Was A Good Day by Ice Cube.

April 24

I was at the Mirage hotel today for a luncheon.  I went to the restroom prior to the lunch.  One of the cleaning crew and I had the following exchange.

Me:  Hello, how are you?
Her: Hello.  I'm having a great, great day
Me:  It must be a great day if you said it twice
Her:  It is.  I've got a job.  Actually, I've got a job I love, it makes me so happy
Me:  Good for you.  Hope you continue to have a great day!

You've got to love the great positive attitude from this woman.  She's doing a job most people would not want to do (cleaning bathrooms) yet she is HAPPY.  It helped get me out of a negative funk I was in and reminded me to keep things in perspective. 

April 23

A friend of mine posted a blog post on facebook from a friend about getting rid of the negative voices and negative attitudes in your life. It was all about getting rid of the self hate. I've been pretty bad lately about beating myself up about stuff and this was such a great reminder to stop dogging on myself so much.

April 22

My son likes to share his food with me. It's so cute to see how proud he is when he does it.

April 21

I had to take my son to urgent care today and people were all respectful even though the wait was very long.

April 20

I went to an event today where vendors were trying to connect with the guests. While my work didn't connect with many of the companies but I did make connections with people. It was it nice to see people being genuinely nice, even when the connection was not there.

April 19

I had an interesting and frustrating day. I'm just so lucky I have an amazing husband to help me see a new perspective, and a great group of online friends that I can be open and honest with and tell my deepest feelings. I hope everyone has this in their lives.

April 18

I had the best conversation with a sales person today. I know he is trying to sell me something, but he said I was a great conversation to end the day.

April 17

I got to enjoy the warmth and sunshine at lunch today. I enjoyed it too much- I am sunburnt!

April 16

I was in a training, and the presenter was really inspiring.

April 15

My check out girl started a nice conversation with me from the shirt I was wearing. She also gave me a recommendation for a restaurant near where I work.

April 14

Girls just wanna have fun is on. Best random television. I love this movie and it's a great end to a very trying day.

April 13

I got a great parking spot today while trying to park in a casino. If you've ever parked in a large building you know how long of a walk it can be if you don't get a good spot.

April 12

A young man held the door for me while walking into a building today. I was not that close to the door so he had to hold it for a bit longer than normal. He said "you're welcome" when I said thank you.

April 11

I was told I have a great energy today. This was the second time someone has said that to me!

April 10

I saw a car accident today. I was touched at how many people not involved in the accident got out of their cars to see how they could help.

April 9

I got the nicest email from a friend today who made me feel good about what I am doing with my work. I was having a rough day and it made me feel so much better.

April 8

I went to Costco today. I saw a woman let not one but two customers who only had one or two items go in front of her.

April 7

We went to a broadway show in the new performing arts center in Las Vegas today. I randomly struck up a conversation with the gentleman in front of me in line for the bar, and it ends up he is a graduate of the college where I work and could be a donor for me. Who knew the random conversation could lead to success at work?

April 6

I took the day off today, and spent the day shopping and cleaning. My husband cleaned a bunch too so our house was not in shambles when friends came over.

April 5

My baby board girls and I had a great time online today. We decided that we were going to send each other silver sequin capris to each other when we are having a bad week. It was one of the funniest conversations I've had in a long time and we all will feel a little better when we get the pants in the mail!

April 4

Getting around a college campus can be difficult. The buildings may or may not have names, you might be walking the wrong way, etc. That is why today i was do pleased to see a student helping a couple of people get to the part of campus where they needed to go.

April 3

My husbands main project for work is going through a big transition, which started today. He said everyone he worked with to implement the changes have been understanding and even nice!

April 2

I made the mistake of trying to do two things at once today, and accidentally booked the same flight twice for my son and I. Luckily a quick call to Southwest customer service and we got the second set of flights cancelled. The customer service rep was the nicest person, laughed when I made fun of my mistake and was just a nice person on the phone. Southwest might not have all the bells and whistles of other airlines, but they have great customer service.

April 1

We had the nicest waitress at breakfast this morning. She paid extra attention to our son and he loved it!

March 31

So if you follow me on facebook (and you probably do since that's the only place I post this blog) you know that I LOVE my patio. My favorite thing to do is sit on my patio with a drink in my hand, listen to my music and stare at the stars. Today, my dear husband took care of our son most of the day so I could work on my paper so i could get a little patio time tonight (I am writing this post from my patio!) He's such a great guy.

March 30

My brother gave me the best compliment today. He said that I reminded him of our cousin Kathy. Kathy was killed in a car accident in 1997, and she was one of the coolest people I know. She was smart, funny, and caring. I was honored to be compared to her.

March 29

Today there was a terrible accident near where I work. The very busy road where it happened was closed for 8 hours. I was pleased to see how courteous everyone was while driving around the accident. It took me nearly an hour to drive what normally takes 5 minutes and people were not getting mad. It is a tragic event, as two people died, but at least others were nice about the inconvenience.

March 28

Today a friend shared a story with me. She stopped at a Bob Evans to eat by herself. She ate at the counter, as she had done other times. She knew that many times, waitresses were not as focused on their customers at the counter so she was so happy to have a waitress who was wonderful. Her service was so good she left a $20 tip. My friend said the best part was Seeing the surprise then happiness when the waitress got her tip.

March 27

My son loves buses. Every time we are in the car he screams out when he sees one. Today we drove past a bus and I suggested to him that he wave at the bus driver. He waved and the bus driver waved back. It was the cutest thing!

March 26

Today I got a really good parking spot at work. It made my work day start of right.

March 25

Today at church the priest's sermon talked about sharing kindness this week. He specifically spoke about the little things that make a difference (like being nice when you leave the parking lot of church, which is ironic that people are so rude after praying together for an hour). It was nice to hear about the importance of small acts.

March 24

Today is my sons birthday. We had many great kindnesses from friends and family today.

Match 23

My parents and I went to Toys R Us today. The cashier tried to get us 20% off the big item we were purchasing. We thought our coupon wasn't going to work but we thought we'd try, and it was nice of the cashier to try for us.

March 22

Today my fried was asked to sign a petition. Rather then signing it, she told him about the importance of making eye contact when asking for something. She saw him later in the day and he thanked her for her advice. Her random kindness helped his cause.

March 21

I went to Target tonight just before closing, which I hate doing but I had to. I apologized to the woman who checked me out and she was sincere when she said it was not a bug deal.

March 20

I got to do something cool for work today. We sat at a table inside the room where all things graduation were taking place. Students that were graduating can come to this event and get everything they need to graduate - from their cap and gown to joining the alumni association. We had a table to ask graduates to write a little thank you note to donors to the university. This is the first time we had done anything like this, so we weren't sure how it would be received. The response was amazing! We received over 150 thank you notes from students to donors. It was so great to see how many students just thought it was great and were more than happy to help.

March 19

We ate brunch at a local restaurant. I noticed right away that the entire staff was over the top friendly. Like super friendly. The hostess was really nice, the waitress kept letting us know our food would be out soon (it didn't take a long time or anything), and the person who cashed us out was grateful we said, "have a nice day".

March 18

Today is my birthday. It was so nice for random people to tell me happy birthday when they found out.

March 17

I enjoyed the kindness of the Irish today.

March 16

Today a young gentlemen held a door for me and when I said thank you, he said "my pleasure". That was nice.

March 15

I love how sports transcends all places. I had a great conversation with a guy in Las Vegas about the Cleveland Indians.

March. 14

Today a person needed to get off the highway and kind of cut me off. He waved and waved after he did it- you could tell he didn't mean to do it an was appreciative of me letting him in my lane.

March 13

I got to take a nice long run outside today. It was unexpected time alone, which was nice.

March 12

I was told I had a good energy today. Not exactly the conversation I expected to have with the check out guy at the dollar store but it was really nice.

March 11

My husband, who was sick most of the weekend, got his energy up to watch our son for a couple of hours so I could get a bunch of shopping out of the way.

March 10

I got to enjoy the great weather outside today.

March 9

We have a lot of family coming to town starting Thursday. Today my husband spent his extra few hours off work cleaning our house and doing laundry so we could spend time doing other things the rest of the weekend.

March 8

Parking at may work can be challenging at times. So it was nice today when a gentleman saw that I was trying to find a parking spot and pointed to me where his car was, then waited until I got close to his spot before she pulled out of the spot. This is huge at my office, and I was so thankful.

March 7

I was home sick today. It was nice to be able to take time to get better. I am lucky to be able to get sick days.

March 6

I had a great conversation with a good friend today. It was nice to just talk about fun things in life, not serious stuff.

March 5

Today is about the random kindness of friends. A casual comment at a toddler's birthday party led to my husband and I getting club seats at a college championship basketball game tonight. It was so nice of our friend.

March 4

The cashier at Target was really helpful to put my stuff in the bags the way I like it. Sometimes they don't put enough stuff in the recycling bags but she asked than packed them the way I liked.

March 3

We went out to dinner tonight and had good service (which is so very helpful when you dine out with a toddler) and the server came over to say thanks so much for the tip.

March 2

I went to Bowling Green State University. It was the best four years of my life. I met the love of my life, built life long relationships, and got a great education. BGSU is not a small campus, but when you got involved, those organizations made it feel like a small college.

I think the small campus feel is why so many people have come together over a tragedy. Early this morning, three young BGSU students were killed in a car accident. They were hit head on by a car going the wrong way on the highway. They were driving to the airport to go on spring break.

What has made me feel so good about my alma mater is the amount of condolences and prayers I have seen for these girls. Nearly every BGSU friend of mine posted something on their Facebook page about the accident. People are posting stories, links and videos sharing information. One of BG's "mantras" is "Once a Falcon, always a Falcon". I am so proud to be a Falcon today, and so saddened by the loss of these girls. I hope that scholarships are created in their honor so that their memories live on.

March 1

When I was in college, I joined the Alpha Chi Omega sorority. Every March 1 the women celebrate Hera Day by doing acts of kindness. So today's post is in honor of the many acts of kindness taking place by these wonderful women.

February 29

A great song started my drive to work today. It Started the day out right!

February 28

Today I got an "atta girl"from a co- worker today. I find the "atta girl" is a great motivator.

February 27

Today is a somber day. There was a school shooting Chardon, Ohio, a suburb of Cleveland. This post is for the acts of kindness we will not know from today. The hugs from strangers, the thoughts and prayers from around the world, the shoulders to lean on for all of these kids. We won't know the specific stories unless we know someone who was directly affected, but I have no doubt there were thousands of these kinds of kindness today.

February 26

Today I purchased my son's birthday present. It was large but the associate took it out to my car, put it in the car then took my cart.

February 25

I know I talk a lot about my husband but I have to give him props again today. He took our son to the mall and the park so I basically had all day to write my very large paper. I am so very lucky!

February 24

Today a group of my co-workers took time out of their busy lives to be a part of a focus group for my class. I am lucky to work with such great people.

February 23

We went bowling tonight. While the group consisted of guys and girls, the girls were the recipients of the harmless flirting from the guys the next lane over. It was cute.

February 22

Today I got the "friends and family" discount at a local popcorn shop, and they also gave me and my family a special treat. It makes me want to always buy local!

February 21

I was getting cranky today, and while driving, a great song came on and changed my mood.

February 20

Another post from a friend! Thanks Louise for sharing.

i was just starting out on the track tonight to waste a little time before my weight class started, i had my towel, water and also my little wristlet purse which i didn't realize wasn't zipped shut....i took about four steps into the track and decided to shift all my junk around in my hands and inadvertently turned the purse upside down - it wasn't zipped shut and all my change and credit cards flew all over the track! the runners/walkers proceeded to step/jump around me and the mess i made, but a young girl that was on one of the treadmills close by jumped down and started helping me pick up my stuff! what a nice thing to do. yes, random acts of kindness mean a lot!

February 19

I went to a swap meet with a friend today. At one store there was a woman who walked up to me and asked me in Spanish if I spoke Spanish. I said no and she said she only spoke Spanish. She smiled and said something in Spanish and smiled so I smiled back and walked away. She then came up to me to tell me the woman in the next store over did speak English. I said gracias and she smiled. It made her so happy that I at least said thank you in her language.

February 18

Today I hung out with people I had not met before. One girl was really nice to introduce everyone to me and tell me about the people so I felt like part of the group.

February 17

Many people congratulated me for the event we had completed last night. I only played a small part but it was nice for people to say!

February 16

Today I three different people drop things, and every time someone would help them pick whatever it was up.

February 15

Several months ago I was introduced online to a woman named Cathy. She had an online store that sold amazing hand made jewelry. The best part was that certain bracelets were created for certain people and when those pieces are sold, she gives a percentage of the proceeds to a charity of that person's choice. Many times, the bracelet is not created by that person, but in honor of that person. Here is her website - http://cathyscreationsjewelry.com/main.sc Under cause jewelry, I'm a personal fan of the Bryer, Elliott and Landon bracelets, but that's just me. If you search her on Facebook, and like her page, you become a "Frike" - a friend who likes her page.

Cathy does so much more. She does auctions of her jewelry to raise money for people in need. Last fall she encouraged many of us to give to help women in need during the holidays. She is just an amazing person.

Today she posted on her blog about "Random Act of Kindness" week and the many things you can do to create acts of kindness. I wanted to share the list so people can give kindness and hopefully receive kindness in return. http://creationscathys.blogspot.com/2012/02/random-acts-of-kindness-week.html

Thank you Cathy, for being such an inspiration for so many.

February 14

Today my husband was driving behind a bus. As it slowed down, the bus driver waved my husband ahead so he didn't have to wait for the bus to pick up the students. Very nice!

February 13

It has been said, "It is amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit". I'm working with two amazing women right now who are planning an event for well over 400 people. These women are working their TAILS off and not asking for any credit. They are just focused on making sure our event comes off without a hitch. I'm just happy I get to work next to them.

February 12

I went to the park with my son today. A guy with three dogs went over the top to let my son play with his dogs. He was so happy and I was too

February 11

A couple days ago, my friend was having day three of a bad day. You know, the bad day that ends up being three days? She shared with a few of us how bad it was. Then a little later a "secret admirer" had sent her chocolate covered strawberries. And that turned her around. Later that night she told us that the random gift from another one of our friends (she finally confessed) got her to start thinking differently about her life, and the stress and frustration she was feeling about one part of her life went away because she was so focused on the great things she has.

Here is the best part. Another friend heard this story. The next day, her husband was having a really bad day, so she sent him candy to brighten his day, which it did. This is a great example about how people were paying it forward, and how it helped people feel better. I really think it's not about the amount the gift costs, it's about the act of kindness that counts.

All of these acts remind me of a dear dear friend who, many years ago, sent me a large envelope that was full of little paper squares. Each square said "hugs" - there were thousands of them. I still have them all, and will mail them to other people from time to time. Again, the smallest act can make such a great difference in someone.

February 10

Today's post is about a friend that was taken from us too soon. Her name was Lisa. Four years ago today she died from brain cancer. The cancer is called Glioblastoma which is a very aggressive form of brain cancer. From the first time she showed signs that something was wrong until she died was 6 days. I probably remember more about that week than most weeks of my life - the pain, the concern, the deep sadness.

Anyway, this is not about the sadness. This post is to highlight two kinds of acts of kindness, both that Lisa has given to me.

My husband grew up with seven other guys that he was close to in high school, and the guys stayed pretty close through college, even though they all went different directions. My first time meeting Lisa was at the wedding of one of these guys in 1999. I was nervous - these guys were a big part of my husbands life, and I wanted to make sure I got along with the girls. Lisa was the first of the girlfriends/wives I met. She immediately put me at ease and made me feel welcome. She gave me the back story on people and brought me into the "group" so I felt like I was one of them.

That friendship grew over the years. I've never been one to have friends that I communicate with daily. It's just never been my way (and I don't condone it, I'm just wired differently) but Lisa and I always maintained a connection even though our lives took different paths. She always focused on what was important to us and tried to help the best she could. You always felt special with Lisa. Her kindness was not random, but it wasn't something she forced. It just was. I still try every day to be a mom like her.

After Lisa died, we were all just a mess. She was the second one in our group that had passed away in 18 months time. (I will also write about Ryan someday - he's a great story of kindness too). My husband and I were not living in the town where he grew up, but came back to town and spent a week greiving with everyone. We made it through the calling hours (over 1000 people came to pay their respects) and the funeral. I was drained, distraught and depressed. We were driving from the cemetary back to the church to be fed, and we had the radio on. Suddenly, Bittersweet Symphony from the Verve came on the radio. It wasn't a popular song at the time, but one I always liked. In my head I visualized the last scene in the movie Cruel Intentions, where that song was used. In that scene the Reece Witherspoon character is driving away and suddenly this great feeling of calm swept over me. I remember thinking to myself - it is all going to be okay. To me, that was Lisa telling me that it was all going to be okay. And I still believe that was what she was trying to tell me. Any time I hear that song I think that is her, telling me it will all be okay. It has calmed me down more times than I can count in the last four years.

I was blessed to have known Lisa. And while I will be sad today, I will also appreciate the things she brought to my life and know that I am a better person because I knew her.

February 9

I was just tagged on facebook with this post, and I decided it was the blog post for tonight. I started this blog to remind myself of how random acts of kindness can change my attitude. I am humbled that people read this thing, and then share with me their random acts received. Thank you Robyn!

I thought of you today when I was the recipient of two random acts of kindness in about 5 minutes. During an extra long wait for the elevator, a student shared candy he had left over from an event with me. Then, at Pida Plaza [on our campus] by the food truck, which was only accepting tickets in exchange for their food...I didn't have a ticket, you couldn't buy a ticket, and as I was trying to figure it all out, a student behind me gave me his ticket - he had just eaten. Thanks to the sweet students at UNLV!

February 8

My biggest complaint about motherhood is having to defend my parenting decisions to other mothers. I have had to defend my decisions on how to raise my child in nearly every aspect of parenting, and it has always annoyed me - how do you know what is best for me and my family? Luckily, when I was pregnant with my son, I joined an online baby community of other soon to be moms who were due about the same time as me. Since we all "met" nearly three years ago, these women have been supportive of my decisions of my child, even if they are raising their children in a different way.

So that is why today was not really a random act of kindness, it was sticking up for one of our own. One of the girls made an innocent post on facebook that was blown up into an argument about how she raises her daughter. The post was not about her daughter at all, but unfortunately one girl (not one in my group) likened a flu shot to giving her daughter poison. While it probably wasn't the nicest of conversations, I realized these girls would defend me in the same way if I needed it. I know I have over 60 girls out there who will defend me for MY right to be the kind of mom I want to be. And most of those 60, I have never met. Love my BDC girls!

February 7

Today I got my hair cut. There was a girl who 15 getting her hair cut with my stylist before me. My stylist cut her hair in the mowhawk that she wanted. The girls mom was great. She had asked the stylist to try to talk her out of it, but was supportive of her daughter once it was done. While I'm not a parent of teenagers, I think that mom was on to something- give your opinion, but be supportive in the choices they make.

February 6th

I had to go to Home Depot for work today. I was helped by a wonderful man, but that's not the point of this post.

While my employee was helping me, a gentleman came up and after being recognized by the worker, they started to have a conversation. It was obvious that my worker had been helping this man prior to helping me, and after new questions from the customer, the employee was focused to get the answers for this customer, which meant he stopped helping me. The customer kept apologizing to me for interrupting the worker with my project. I kept telling the man it was not a big deal, but it was nice of him to apologize for what he was doing. I am glad he got his answers and I got my job completed. The man didn't have to apologize, but I could tell he was sincere.

February 5

I was hosted at a tea today. It was so nice to get fed wonderful food for free!

February 4

The oil change guys gave me a discount without the coupon.

February 3

When I was pregnant with my son I joined an online baby board to connect with women who were due the same general time as me. One woman in the group learned her son had a disease called CDH. I don't remember what CDH stands for, but basically her little guy was born with only 20% of his abdomen. When this happens the other organs move up into the chest cavity and cause the lungs to not develop correctly. Little E was born with all his "guts" in his chest and has had several surgeries to get everything back in place and to "grow" an abdomen.

Because of the lack of lung development, this little guy has had oxygen for his entire life, and has been intabated (sp). Because of the tubes helping him breathe, he's not been able to talk. Until recently. Now that he's older, they have been able to add something to his tubes (again, forgive me for not knowing the technical terms) and with a push of a button, he has a voice. His mom shared his babble with us today on a video. I cried because it is just so wonderful to see this little guy so excited to hear his own voice. His mom has shared so much with us on their journey, all of us on this board have a special place in our hearts for this little man. It was so great for his mom to share the video with us today.

February 2nd

Today is about the kindness of strangers. As I mentioned before, my uncle passed away just before the holidays. He was killed in a tragic car accident. He was an amazing man, and there are probably thousands of people who think that too.

Anyway, the day of the memorial service, the family found out that the school in the small town where my uncle lived was naming the wrestling room after him. He actually helped build the room many years ago. Unfortunately, the room is in need of a big renovation, and the family has decided that they will not put his name on the room until it is renovated. We have been fundraising in a variety of ways.

One way is doing the superbowl square game, where people pay money to buy "squares" on a grid, and then numbers are randomly placed on the top and side of the grid. Whoever has the last numbers of the two teams at the end of each quarter get a prize. I've been struggling to fill in the 100 square board. My husband had the idea to put it out on a board in which he's a member. Within an hour I had two emails from people we had never met offering condolences and asking how to buy squares. One guy even said if he won he wanted the prize to go back to the wrestling room. My heart is so warmed by these two guys being so very generous. People are just amazing.

February 1

Today I was reminded to have random acts of fun. Two women I hung out with tonight "torture" their friend who hates Winnie the pooh by taking pictures of a small plastic pooh doll in suggestive places (my personal favorite was when the doll was head first in a beer can). It was a good reminder for me to be silly more often.

January 31

I had a really bad day today. And at one point in the day I thought to myself, "what in the world am I going to write on the blog today? Nothing is good today". Then, amazing things happened. My husband said exactly the right things to make me feel better (as he always does), a friend emailed me positive words, and a quick post about my bad day on a board I am a part of resulted in texts and messages from a bunch of wonderful ladies. I realized that I am so very blessed to have all of these people and so many more in my life. And that, my friends, is what it's all about. The reason I started this blog was so I could get over bad days like today, and it worked. So just remember that your quick text or message just might make someone's day- those things did it for me today.

January 30

The road next to the college where I work is a busy six lane road that is a main road between the north and south sides of the city. And of course students live around the area. A few years ago the city installed marked and lit walkways to make it easier for students to cross onto campus. For whatever reason, many students just walk across the walkway without even looking, which is scary because not everyone stops. Today however, the nicest student made sure to wave thank you as he crossed.

January 29

We ran into friends at Target. The father of Will's friend let him hold a regular sized basketball while I was packing up my car. The look on my son's face was priceless. It isn't that random for us as adults, but it made his day!

January 28

My son has started giving unsolicited hugs. He's never been one to cuddle so this makes us so happy!

January 27

Today, my dear sick husband still did my dishes. He does it nearly every night (we have a deal that whoever cooks the other does the dishes) but tonight we made our own dinners that deal is off. But he still did mine so I could focus on homework. Love him!

January 26

I was walking to a restaurant and had to pass a kiosk that typically has pushy people trying to sell something. Today though, the guy asked how my night was going and then complimented me on my coat. What a nice guy!

January 25

A little late on this one. Today I enjoyed the kindness of a stranger holding one of the doors in a double door building, then thanked me when I held the other door for him.

January 24

Warning- this post is from a proud mom. Today, my nearly two year old son was given the kindness award at his "school" today. He is a really nice boy at home, but we are so pleased he's a good boy away from us too!

January 23

While waiting in line at the Starbucks on campus this morning, a student passed out. She was okay, but I was amazed at how many people quickly came to help her, from the great Starbucks staff to several people in line. It was great to see people helping others.

January 22

Today my wonderful husband took our son out for a bit so I could get homework and my workout done. It was so helpful.

January 21

Today I drove a few hours to meet a friend for a play date. We ended up in Barstow, CA. It was a cold and very windy day, so after an hour of playing at the park, the kids needed to play inside. I called the main line for the outlet mall in the area to see if their food court had a play area for kids. The woman who answered was the best customer service representative I have ever worked with. She informed me that they did not have an area for kids. When I explained that we were from out of town and what we are looking for, he gave me a couple of ideas then offered to give me directions to those areas. None of those places were a part of her place of employment. I was so impressed at how willing she was to help us find a good place for our kids to play.

January 20

Today I had to go to a casino for work. Leaving the property, not one but two different gentlemen held doors for me and the person I was with. Chivalry still exists!

January 19

I hosted a wonderful couple at an event today. They said thank you to everyone they came in contact with, and they said it many times. They are an example of great people.

January 18

Many times I have to wait in line to go to bathroom at work (it is a long story). Today the girl in front of me asked if I wanted to go in front of her. That is the first time that has happened to me.

January 17

College kids are interesting. Some of them are great. The one young student I came across was a good one. He made sure to ask my group if he could take our chair. He then put up with three "older" ladies when we razzed him.

January 16

I went shopping at Costco today. After loading my groceries in my car, I was getting ready to put my cart back when someone who was walking in offered to take it. It was nice not to have to walk across the parking lot to put the cart back.

January 15

All three people who helped my son and me at Target were over and above nice and all three interacted with my son.

January 14

Today I toast the bartender who is liberal with their pour of a glass of wine. Here's to those great bartenders who give a little extra.

January 13

For his job, my husband has to go to the same bank four days a week. When he left today, a teller, not the one who helped him today, told him to have a good weekend. Nice to offer greetings especially when they are not expected.

January 12

Wow. Today a friend told me that this blog has inspired her. She didn't have to tell me this, but I was so humbled. Thank you.

January 11

I brought my son to work this afternoon. While walking to my office, a random girl told me how cute my son was. I believe he's the most adorable thing ever, and I know I am biased. But it's nice to see that others see it too, and to tell me randomly.

January 10

Today I spent time with an incredible woman. She works for Zappos and is in charge of their work to improve downtown Las Vegas (aka, Freemont St.) She gave us a tour of what will soon be Zappos world headquarters, but currently is still city hall. We saw jail cells where mobsters were held, the mayors office, and then she took us to the Zappo's owners downtown apartment (he wasn't there). It was an amazing experience, but for me, she made it even better with her attitude. Every single place we went, she said hello to every single person she met. Homeless or millionaire, she gave them a smile and a hello. We mentioned how friendly she was and she said, "I say hello to everyone because I might be the only person who is nice to them today". If only we all lived that way.

January 9

A week ago, a friend shared with me that JCPenny's was having a great sale on a kids patio set. The sale was so amazing, it seemed too good to be true. And sure enough, it was. I got an email saying they priced it wrong, but they would honor the price for as they had stock. Today I got an email that they did run out of stock before they could fulfill my order, but gave me a gift certificate for over three times what the original deal was. Not exactly random kindness but a great example of customer service.

January 8

My not quite two year old and I went to the mall today. I decided we would both walk - I thought he would like going up the escalator and I couldn't find the stroller. That meant that i was using one hand for my son and the other for my purchases. A very nice young man held the door for us when we were leaving. I was so thankful.

January 7

It is not necessary to do the "thank you wave" while driving, but it is nice when it happens. I let someone turn in front of me this afternoon and they did the wave. It makes me a little happier.

January 6

I hung out with great people tonight. Sure, that's not terribly random, but being able to have great conversations is a good thing, and I will take it.

January 5

People were so courteous driving today. Two parts of my drive I have to merge into traffic, and no one cut me off. Everyone traveled nicely today.

January 4

I'm in my mid 30's, which is "ma'am" territory. You know, that age when you are called "ma'am" instead of "miss". I once had a discussion with a southern gentleman who claimed that "ma'am" was fine for all ages of women, but I disagree. I think women begin their adult life as "miss" but then transition to "ma'am" at some point. At my age, most people see me as a ma'am. So I was so pleased for the check out guy at a store called me "miss" not once but twice tonight!

January 3rd

My uncle passed away two weeks ago. I left to go back east on a Monday, and with the holidays, today was the first day I have seen many co workers. I was so surprised to have five different co workers express their condolences. I was not expecting so many people to remember what we have been through.

January 2nd

I am a big fan of casual conversation with strangers. You know, the "nice weather" comment while waiting in an elevator, etc. It helps make the time go by faster, and I feel is just a nice thing to do. Today, I had two people randomly start a casual conversation with me. First, when I exchanged two shirts at the store, the worker who did my exchange was over and above nice - way more than what was required of him. Secondly, at the grocery store, my check out girl was so very friendly. These two conversations made my day.

January 1

A simple act - my husband watched our son after he got up so I could go back to bed. It was a fun night last night but I was up way past my bedtime- it was so nice to catch a few extra zzz's.

Introduction to the blog

I believe that life is not always about the big things. I think when the small things are taken care of, they help create the big things.

That's why I am a fan of small, random acts of kindness. A person holding a door, a smile while walking by, or doing something without being asked can make a big difference in a person's day, even when it doesn't feel like a big thing.

With that, I am creating this blog to share one random act of kindness a day. I will do this for every day in 2012. It can be something that someone does for me, something I see, or a random act that is shared with me. I want to be reminded on my bad days that the small things can make an impact, and I hope you will share your random acts with me to share the good in people to others.

A reminder of beauty.